Think of someone you love. Now think of something he or she does over and over again that BUGS you. Imagine that person doing that thing. Have you ever heard yourself say, "I can't believe he did that!"? This response suggests shock. . . .
Say, for example, your husband doesn't put his dishes in the sink. It happens maybe four times a week. Times that by the number of years you've been married, say ten years, so it's happened 2,080 times, and you're still surprised. Lesson: Do not attempt to solve a problem that you don't think should exist.
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